Gosh, this has been the longest week ever! So many changes have happened this week.
First, we started the whole preschool thing. As exciting as preschool is, it has been an emotional roller coaster for the whole family. I have done my best to hide my tears and let the kids know what an exciting time this is for them. They aren't big on change, just like their mother. William, for example, has been aggressive all week. In addition to his aggression, he has been crying about everything.
Secondly, there is Claudia and her
nanas (pacifiers). Over the past two weeks, we told her since she would be in preschool, it was time to say goodbye to the
nanas. Last Saturday, she had to part with them. It has been rough on her. Mom too! No more naps - due to no
nanas and afternoon preschool
twice a week. Going to sleep in the evening has gone from stress free to "You must stay in your bed" 94 times each evening.................
Third, is the whole potty issue with Claudia..... She is reluctant to use the potty. After digging up some literature from the pediatrician and reading it, we
decided to take a new approach. Totally back off, stop nagging and make her responsible for using the bathroom. No diapers, no pull-ups, just underwear. She actually peed in the potty on her own yesterday. Although, she cried hysterically the whole time because the Princess potty does not have the biggest
insert and she peed everywhere. But she did try to use the potty!
Preschool is tied into the potty, too. Potty equals preschool. No potty, no preschool. These are
supposed to be the rules. Except.... the preschool director said it was okay for Claudia to attend in pull-ups. "She'll learn as she sees the others using the potty". What she is really saying is "
I want your tuition money every month".
Claudia's teachers feel differently. They were not aware of Claudia and the potty issue. (
Hello? What's with the lack of communication between the teachers and director? Now I'm thinking that we picked a winner of a preschool.) The teachers said that Claudia needs to come to school in underwear. If she has more than two accidents, she will be sent home and should be "
sent to her room for the afternoon because she was asked to leave preschool". As if I might actually punish my child for having an accident. What the heck is wrong with these teachers?!!!? Instead of questioning them, I simply nodded and left.
There have been some other changes this week, but now I'm all caught up in the potty issue and I can't
remember what else I was going to write.
It's funny. I always thought I would have more free time once the kids started in school. Boy, was I wrong! The kids don't know what to do with themselves when the other sibling is gone. Mostly Claudia. They are so used to have a buddy to play with. Yesterday, after dropping off Claudia, William and I went to the library. Today is Claudia's turn for the library and a quick trip to Target.
Completing the big house projects are now a dream of the past.........
Changes....................